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There are plenty of kink events in London, ranging from beginner-friendly nights out to full-blown fetish parties. So we want to help you find the right ones for your journey (because your pleasure map definitely deserves some landmarks)
Whether you're brand new to kink or a seasoned participant, these top 15 kink events offer something for everyone.
Torture Garden
This is for you if: You want the ultimate “main stage” fetish experience with maximum spectacle and style.
What is it? The city’s most iconic kink club night, mixing performance, fashion, and hardcore play into one immersive experience that’s been a highlight of the fetish scene for a long time.
Vibe: High-glam, creative, edgy. Expect theatrical scenes, fetish catwalks, and a strong visual emphasis.
Dress code: Latex, leather, full fetish gear. If in doubt, go bold.
When and where: Monthly, at various central London venues, typically on Saturdays. Every evening has a bold theme, with the next event often announced far in advance.
Tickets: Purchase via their official website in advance; ticket prices are usually £30-40, with optional backstage access or workshops.
You’ll find everything from fire performers to dominatrix shows here. Triple-check entrance time and entry requirements; they’re strict, but for good reason: creating a polished, inclusive space with industry-leading standards. Going with friends is always a great move, especially if you’re a single woman exploring for the first time.
BiZarre Events
This is for you if: You’re ready for the deep end, with high-energy play and zero hesitation.
What is it? Labelled as one of the most extreme kink parties in London, BiZarre Events blends a bold, unapologetic vibe with performance, fashion, and community-driven edge. Their parties are immersive, high-energy, and full of play potential, perfect for those who crave more intensity.
Vibe: High-octane, fetish-forward, and unapologetically wild. Think BDSM demos, latex showcases, and a crowd that’s confident in their kink—where all gender identities are welcomed as a matter of course.
Dress code: Strict. Expect to be turned away without full fetish wear: latex, leather, lace, and bold statement looks.
When and where: Monthly pop-up parties and next events in venues like TABU and Hoxton Hall, often with rotating themes.
Tickets: Advance purchase strongly recommended. Ticket prices usually range from £15–£30, depending on event type.
BiZarre isn’t your casual curiosity fair; it’s for those who want to step into full-throttle fetish culture. Come with friends or solo; the sheer variety of activities means you’ll quickly connect with others.
https://www.bizarre-events.com/
Klub Verboten
This is for you if: You love the idea of being part of a stylish, curated kink crowd where aesthetics matter.
What is it? A themed fetish club night focusing on glitz, hedonism, and high-protocol interaction.
Vibe: Glam meets kink, with the sophistication of an art event and the pulse of the fetish scene. Expect richly curated rooms, top DJs, and performance corners.
Dress code: Strict: black or fetish, elegant or dramatic aesthetic encouraged.
When & where: Quarter-yearly at large central London venues.
Tickets: £35–£45; reduced or annual membership options available.
It’s less about play and more about the overall experience, where being part of the crowd is as important as the activities themselves.
London Fetish Weekend
This is for you if: You want to immerse yourself in kink culture over several days, learning as much as you play.
What is it? A multi-day gathering combining playrooms, lectures, and community-led workshops.
Vibe: Learning-first, welcoming, and a genuine safe space for all gender identities.
Dress code: Varies by activity, informal during workshops, fully fetished for parties.
When & where: Annual event over a weekend at large central venues.
Tickets: Conference-style registration with tiered ticket prices.
Perfect for those wanting a festival feel but with kink roots; where the discussions and classes are just as engaging as the parties.
https://fetishweekendlondon.com/
Munches London
This is for you if: You want to dip your toe in and meet people without any performance pressure.
What is it? A relaxed, social gathering in local pubs or cafes.
Vibe: Informal, low-pressure, beginner-friendly; ideal for making new friends before diving into play.
Dress code: Usually casual, it’s really about conversation.
When & where: Monthly in pubs across London. Platforms like Kinky Tiger are great for finding listings.
Tickets: Free or pay-what-you-like.
Munches are a great first thing to do if you’re brand new, and they often spark discussions that lead to future events.
Queer Kink Mixers
This is for you if: You’re queer and want a low-pressure way to explore kink community.
What is it? A social-first mixer for LGBTQ+ individuals interested in kink.
Vibe: Inclusive, chilled, welcoming. This is an inclusive space for meeting friends and allies.
Dress code: Varied.
When & where: Monthly at queer-friendly venues.
Tickets: Usually under £10.
A great way to build your network and learn about upcoming kink spaces without the intensity of a full-on kink party.
London Alternative Market (LAM)
This is for you if: You want to gear up, learn new skills, and maybe stay for the party.
What is it? A monthly market for gear, workshops, and kink education.
Vibe: Community-driven, hands-on activities, and a hub for the fetish scene.
Dress code: Casual for the market; fetish wear for the afterparty.
When & where: First Sunday monthly at Forge Bar.
Tickets: £8–£20 ticket prices, with an optional afterparty.
It’s the perfect thing to do if you’re looking to learn, shop, or connect without jumping straight into a play party. Stay for the relaxed vibe, or stick around for the LAM Afterparty, where the dress code tightens and the energy turns up a notch.
https://londonalternativemarket.com/
Roast Electrowerkz Mens-Only Club Night
This is for you if: You’re a queer man who wants a charged, well-run play space.
What is it? A club night for bears, muscle guys, and beyond, with a large dark room.
Vibe: Body-positive, high-energy, and safety-focused.
Dress code: Minimal or fetish wear.
When & where: Every other Saturday at Electrowerkz.
Tickets: From £27; ticket prices vary by night.
An unapologetic staple of queer kink spaces, perfect for making friends and exploring at your own pace. The dark room is a core draw, structured and watched by welfare staff. Safety is taken seriously, and consent expectations are high. Great for queer men who want sensory play in a regulated club environment.
https://www.instagram.com/roast
London Polyamory Monthly Social (Hosted by ENMFam)
This is for you if: You’re poly, ENM, or kink-curious and want thoughtful discussion over drinks.
What is it? Conversation-focused meet-ups.
Vibe: Grounded, discussion-rich, and perfect for learning from others’ experiences.
Dress code: Smart casual.
When & where: Various dates/locations.
Tickets: £10.
This event is specifically for conversation. No dating or hook-ups allowed. People are asked to respect each person’s space, and the event’s intention is a chat-focused, community-building meet-up, making it an ideal safe space for single women, couples, and all gender identities to meet, share, and engage in meaningful discussions.
Liquid Love Experience, Oil-Based Sensory Event
This is for you if: You’re curious about sensuality without sexual pressure.
What is it? A guided group experience with warm oil and touch.
Vibe: Slow, sensual, meditative, more about connection than kink play.
Dress code: Clothing optional.
When & where: Several times a year in East London.
Tickets: £160–£240 ticket prices.
It’s one of those activities that stays with you long after the evening ends. A completely unique way to explore intimacy, consent, and connection.
https://www.instagram.com/
theliquidloveexperience
Starkers! Naked Disco
This is for you if: You want to dance without clothes and without judgement.
What is it? A monthly naked disco that overlaps with the fetish world.
Vibe: Playful, body-positive, exhibition-friendly.
Dress code: Naked (footwear required).
When & where: East London.
Tickets: £0–£38.
Great for making new friends and trying something different solo or with a group.
Club AntiChrist at Scala, King’s Cross
This is for you if: You want a dark, theatrical, and intense kink club night.
What is it? An underground fetish and alternative club night.
Vibe: Gothic-industrial, immersive.
Dress code: Strict fetish attire.
When & where: Several times a year.
Tickets: £30–£35 ticket prices.
One of the most recognisable kink parties in London, where being bold is a matter of course.Tickets include access to multiple playrooms, performances, and munch space.
https://www.clubantichrist.co.uk/
Dominium Vita
This is for you if: You want elegance, intimacy, and a curated guest list.
What is it? Upscale social and play events.
Vibe: Sophisticated and sensual.
Dress code: Cocktail or fetish attire.
When & where: Secret central London venues.
Tickets/Membership: Apply online; annual membership or guest passes.
A luxurious option for those who want refined kink spaces and curated activities.
Feeld Socials London
This is for you if: You want to explore sex-positive culture through conversation and art, not play.
What is it? A sex-positive social hosted by Feeld, blending art, queer chats, panels, and low-pressure mingling. No play. Just open, curious connection.
Vibe: Inclusive, creative, relaxed. Great for newcomers or the kink-curious.
Dress code: Casual, no kinkwear needed.
When and where: Various locations and dates depending on the event.
Tickets: Often free or £5–10 via Eventbrite or Feeld.
A softer route into the community, especially if you’re looking for inclusive spaces to meet friends and discuss themes around sex positivity.
Mandrake Salon at The Mandrake. Kink & Intimacy Classes
This is for you if: You want hands-on learning in an elegant, consent-first space.
What is it? Hosted at The Mandrake Hotel in Fitzrovia, this salon-style workshop series is led by kink educator Sophie Cohen. Whether you're new or looking to deepen your erotic skills, expect guided intros to spanking, rope, power dynamics, and more.
Vibe: Luxurious, educational, and consent-first. Ideal for beginners or curious couples.
Dress code: Smart casual or comfortable. No fetishwear needed.
When and where: Regularly at The Mandrake Hotel. Check themandrake.com for dates.
Tickets: Around £30–£35. Private sessions are also available.
These are safe, stylish sessions focused on learning, not play. A perfect soft start into the world of erotic adventure. It’s an ideal first step into kink for all gender identities, with activities ranging from rope to power dynamics; each run to industry-leading standards as a matter of course.
Tips for First-Time Attenders
- Read the event’s rules and dress code in advance. Some spaces enforce strict protocols.
- Bring valid ID and keep the confirmation email in an easy-to-find place.
- Going with a friend helps ease nerves. You can reconvene and reflect afterward.
- You might not feel like joining in and that’s okay. Observe first, then engage when you’re ready.
- If there’s a cloakroom, bring some cash. It’s safer than leaving valuables out.
Explore on your own terms
Whether you're dipping your toe into kink or dancing in latex, London has a space where you can feel safe, seen, and celebrated. These 15 events were chosen to reflect variety, gatherings for learning, casual social nights, visual spectacles, and community-first spaces. Kink is about connection, choice, and consent. And the community is richer when it includes people like you, exploring in your own time.
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